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Posts: 2174 (05/16/09 11:18 AM) |
Lol.
Even though I have friends, I'm not one of those people who are always busy socializing and making plans for every second of their life. Most of my time is spent at home, on my own. I like it that way, though. He is also known for his constant wearing of mismatched socks,
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Posts: 1511 (05/16/09 2:09 PM) |
Same here *highfives*
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Posts: 2175 (05/16/09 5:52 PM) |
Yer! *highfives back*
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Posts: 2176 (05/16/09 7:19 PM) |
Uh, i have something to talk about, but I can't right now because I have to go to sleep. But I'll be back later with my situation and maybe someone
will be able to help me. Hopefully. ::
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Posts: 2177 (05/17/09 11:08 AM) |
Ok, so I'm back and I really need to talk.
So..last night my best friend finally told me why she drinks at every social thing she goes to. And she said it was because she wants to hide how unhappy she is from her boyfriend(my cousin), and that she doesn't want him to think that she's unhappy with him. She also says she's still confused about this other guy she liked, but he would give her "mixed signals", and she found out that she didn't really like him, that he wasn't who she thought he was. And that's what gets me. If she knows he's not who she thought, then why does she still like him, yet hate him? I hate that I've never been in her situation, so i don't really know how she feels which makes it that much harder to help her. And about half a year ago, she had this huge fight with some of our, now ex, friends and she was scared that telling me about her current problems and feelings would make me think she was depressed, and that I'd stop being her friend, which is something I would never do to her. So basically she drinks to be happy. I mean, she's only 15 and she's sounding like an alcoholic! I don't know what else to do except talk to her, but even then I don't know exactly what to say, except what I think about the whole situation. Could someone please try to help me help her? =( He is also known for his constant wearing of mismatched socks,
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Posts: 2467 (05/17/09 7:56 PM) |
Honestly you may have to take to your parents or an adult because your friend does a have a problem with alcohol and even thou your friend may hate you for
telling she'll thank you when she gets the help she needs. Trust me
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jillyn23 |
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Posts: 2182 (05/18/09 8:18 AM) |
Well she not eactly and alcoholic. She only drinks because she gets so happy that people don't realize that she actually isn't. The other night a bunch
of us just took what she had away, and although she got upset, it was all fine. I just want to be able to talk to her and help her with her problems, but I
don't know what to tell her, Because she feels like a lot of things are her fault that aren't.
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Posts: 163 (05/18/09 10:04 AM) |
Jillyn- What your friend is doing is called self medicating. She DOES need help and she could be depressed but it sounds like she is just really confused about
things in general.
One thing that I can help with, you cant help who you fall in love with. Even if she KNOWS the guy is total scum, her heart still wants to be with him. Just support her as best you can, let her know you do care and tell her that you agree with what her mind is telling her about this guy. In time it will go away. She also needs to explain things to her boyfriend telling him he isnt the source of her sadness. I would also make it clear to her that you arent going to let her drink, just so she can pretend to be happy. But I would urge her as much as you can to see help, either frm a school counsellor or from a help hotline. 
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Posts: 2183 (05/18/09 1:05 PM) |
She's said that she is really confused about a LOT, and that it's what has made her so unhappy.
I've told her that she needs to talk to her boyfriend to make sure he knows, not only that he's not what's making her unhappy, but about her problems. In my opinion he should be someone she can talk to about problems such as all of this. She know's that I hate it when she drinks, but she does it anyway, which obviously shows how bad her situation is because it matters to her what I think of her. I know that she most likely does need help from someone more experienced, but I want to be able to help myself also, I think it would be easier for her if it were me rather than someone she didn't know. It'd make it easier for her to talk about, maybe. But thank you so much for taking time to help.  I really appretiate it!!
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Posts: 1521 (05/20/09 7:33 PM) |
Wow, don't worry everything will be alright =]
I'm sick, that sucks 
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Posts: 2197 (05/24/09 3:28 PM) |
I'm just pretty much fed up with my friends right now. One in particular really needs to start listening to what she is saying and realize that it's
exactly how she's acting. ERRR
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Posts: 2577 (05/25/09 8:35 PM) |
I'm sort of in a semi dark place my favorite uncle's sick with cancer and I've all ready lost a cousin to cancer I think writing kind helps me deal
with what I'm feeling
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Posts: 6368 (05/26/09 1:48 PM) |
I know how that is. I lost my friend to brain cancer
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Posts: 1674 (05/27/09 9:59 AM) |
Some people R so mean. One of my closest friends calles me and weird and stupid all the time and just puts me down(she also hates Criss and thinks I'm
stupid for liking him), so I finally decided to break off the friendship. I mean, who needs a person like that in there life? I think its better to be happy
with who you are rather than try to "fit in" and change who your are so others R happy with you.
The loyals are amazing people, and some of my closest friends...so if anyone ever feels like they dont have friends and like the world is agaist them, then just come online and look here. Everyone is so nice and thoughtful , and they really listen and understand you. Dont worry about people at school...they are all just caught up in drama. The loyals will always be...well...Loyal and support you no matter the clothes you wear, the music you listen to, or the shows you watch on tv. 
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jillyn23 |
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Posts: 2202 (05/27/09 1:19 PM) |
^ <3 Why hello there.
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snowangel7 |
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Posts: 1678 (05/27/09 3:31 PM) |
^ HI!
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Posts: 329 (05/28/09 7:15 PM) |
Yea I have a friend, and she puts me down a lot. I'll be with her and she's like "Corinne, I think you're ugly" infront of a lot of
people!! I know I'm beautiful, but it's embarrassing. And she'll make remarks when I'm around a guy that I like. She makes me mad, but I
can't seem to not be friends with her, because she's awesome when she's not like that.
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snowangel7 |
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Posts: 1681 (05/29/09 10:02 AM) |
^ I have the SAME problem
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Posts: 171 (05/29/09 2:13 PM) |
sorry but if they act like that they are not friends at all. I have found that its just better in the long run to rid yourself of these people. Just think
about it, why is ok for them to treat you poorly? Just because they might be funny or take you to parties (or whatever) does not mean its ok for them to say
that type of stuff.
You should be able to count on your friends to support you in tough times, not have to wonder if they will humilate you in front of strangers (or other friends). Though you might want to remind these so called friends that making comments like "you're ugly" makes others look at them and judge them much harder.
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jillyn23 |
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Posts: 2210 (05/30/09 3:40 PM) |
Real friends would never say or do things like that to you, ever. In fact, they should be doing the opposite, they should be trying to make you feel good about
yourself and support you.
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